 |
|
HOW TO COPE WITH ADULTS
|
When a person grows up the world changes in his eyes. First, being a child, one sees only a part of it. He watches his parents live in this world, he listens to them and remembers what then do and wants to repeat after them. A child doesn't argue much with his parents as he only knows their way of doing things.
Time passes and a child becomes a teenager. It always makes the cooperation between parents and children more difficult.
I think that the main conflicts start when a person realizes, that he is old enough not to live within parents' rules and regulations. One wants more freedom than he has, thinks that his parents take too much care of him. To parents their children are always small, they are worried about their son of daughter and don't allow them to do many things the young ones would like to.
Grownups and teenagers often argue about going out late in the evening. Parents are afraid that something bad would happen and don't allow their children out. On the other side children don't understand their parents' motives, think that they are too strict and get angry. Children also don't like when their parents ask where they are going to and with whom. They get embarrassed being compared to someone else. The young also argue much about household chores.
The trouble is both sides are sure it is them who is in the right. When nobody wants to see the opponent's point of view nothing is achieved, but a mass argument.
That's why it is necessary for a teenager not only to tell his parents what he thinks, but be prepared to listen to them as well. One has to discuss the problems calmly, to try to understand his parents, to find the compromise. But if nothing helps, it is quite clever to solve the problem with the psychologist. |
|
| Добавлено: 28-1-2004 09:32PM |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
В связи с повышенным интересом аудитории сайта osvic.ru к публикуемым на сайте рейтингам,
специалисты фирмы «Ос.А» в очередной раз предупреждают:
никакой рейтинг не является истиной в последней инстанции!
Для оценки ситуации на рынке, в конкретном случае, образовательных услуг, труда, рейтинги и полезны, и интересны.
Пользуйтесь на здоровье, изучайте, сравнивайте, анализируйте, делайте свои выводы на основе рейтинга, но не теряйте здравого смысла.
Ведь рейтинги делают люди, а им свойственно ошибаться.
|
|
|
